3 Kinky Ideas to Spice up your Love-Life
We’re young, we’re wild, we’re free, and in sex terms we are living in the best years of our lives. Some of us will be at it daily, nightly and ever so rightly (thank you, Scrubs), whereas others may be somewhat lacking in inspiration or confidence.
However many notches you have on your bedpost, it’s always fun to let go and try something new. If ideas are hard to come by (puns fully intended and relished), look no further…
1. Think outside the bed
Beds can be boring, so go out and explore. The thrill of getting away with something naughty outside can be quite literally mind-blowing, and can certainly make queuing more interesting (just don’t get arrested).
Even if you don’t get any further than your car, you can still find some hot new positions - or play this naughty role-play game where one of you gets to be the ‘virgin’ and the other shows you what to do.
Bathtime can suddenly become much less squeaky clean if you use the right toys - a well-placed water-proof vibrator or even the shower-head can get you both to leg-buckling new heights of pleasure. Follow this Cosmopolitan article (not suitable for under-18s) for a steamy session in the tub.
2. Get sensual
Getting hot and cold can have you screaming out from every pore, even from something as simple as rubbing ice over each other or using the hotness of your breath on your erogenous zones.
Alternatively, take a leaf out of 40 Days and 40 Nights’ book (see about 3 minutes into that clip) and use a hands-free approach by only allowing yourselves to touch each other with a flower or your lips.
3. Clothes don’t always have to be off
There are plenty of ways in which clothes can add to your bedroom experience, from using them to tie each other up to driving each other mad with tantalizing strip-teases.
Leave a photo-trail for your lover to find when he gets home - a string of photos of you wearing one less item of clothing each time that leads him to the bedroom.
Alternatively, a well-chosen outfit can send your imaginations reeling - a sexy secretary outfit or an ill-disciplined schoolgirl can lead to some devilishly naughty roleplay.
Remember: sex should be fun but also safe. Don’t forget to protect each other from STIs and unplanned pregnancies using effective contraception.
Image taken from NeoGaboX’s photostream.




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